Lilith Queen of the Night | Oracle Grimoire đ How to Use the Lilith Oracle Deck
- Mariana Andrade
- May 22
- 5 min read
Lilith Queen of the Night is an oracle deck with 50 cards designed to guide you in embracing your shadows, uncovering your true self, and unlocking your personal power.
The deck draws from:
Jewish folklore
Mesopotamian mythology
Witchcraft
Black Moon Lilith in astrology
Creatures of the night, ritual tools, and spiritual offerings
Each card features a beautiful illustration, a keyword, and an affirmation. The oracle also comes with a grimoire guidebook. It offers stories, card meanings, shadow work, magical practices and an audio meditation: Meeting Lilith â Aligning the Inner Serpent, to help you welcome Lilith and her multifaceted essence into your spiritual journey of self-discovery and empowerment.
âž How to Use the Lilith Oracle Deck
Iâll offer some suggestions on how to use the cards but you can use in a way that makes the most sense to you and resonates with your experience.
Thereâs no strict method. Let your intuition lead.
One suggested daily practice:
Draw a card in the morning
Repeat the affirmation
At night, reflect: How did this energy show up in my day?
Some affirmations may feel uncomfortable, and thatâs a sign of their power. They point to personal truths we often deny. Use them as sacred tools to recognise the strength we already hold inside.
This deck isnât about perfection, itâs about wholeness.
đ€ Shadow Work with Lilith Oracle Deck
Lilith invites you to meet what youâve buried, feared, or rejected. Hereâs a simple shadow ritual that you can do with shadow work that you can find in the guidebook.
Take paper and pen. Pull a card and read the shadow work section in your guidebook related to the card.
Write what came to your mind. Let it flow, raw and honest.
Read it aloud to yourself.
If it feels right, burn the paper (safely). Fire is sacred. Fire transforms. If you cannot burn the paper, rip the paper apart and imagine flames burning the pieces of paper.
This practice helps bring the unconscious into awareness, turning wounds into wisdom, and releasing what no longer serves you.

đ Spreads for Self-Discovery
Here are two spreads you can try, or use them as inspiration to create your own.
In the guidebook you can find other spreads.
Soul Desire Spread

1. Hidden Desire: A soul desire I may not fully recognise yet. 2. Inner Block: What is blocking or creating resistance to fulfilling this desire? 3. Fulfilment: How can I manifest and integrate this desire into my life?
Power & Shadow Spread

1â2. Power Cards â Inner strengths developed in this life or past lives
3â4. Shadow Cards â Parts of yourself needing recognition, healing, and reintegration
Let your power support your healing and help balance them.
đ Example of Power & Shadow Reading

Power Cards: Lilith in Capricorn and Lilith in Pisces

Lilith in Capricorn â The Power of Determination and Recognition
This card shows you are hard-working, ambitious, and determined. You strive to carve out your place in the world and seek to be recognised for your true worth. This power was born when you faced judgment and blame linked to your desire for success and abundance. Perhaps you were told that dreaming big was selfish or âsomething for stuck-up peopleâ. But you learned to channel your energy into what truly matters: your personal and professional development.
Today, Lilith in Capricorn reveals that you possess a rare strength, the ability to never give up on yourself, to move forward with dignity and purpose, even in the face of criticism.
Lilith in Pisces â The Power of Sensitivity, Imagination and Spiritual Connection
This card shows that, alongside your strength and discipline, you also have a dreamy heart, deeply connected to the unseen and spirituality. Lilith in Pisces reveals that you carry healing, empathy, and intuition gifts. Perhaps, at some point, you were discouraged from dreaming or criticised for being too sensitive. But you discovered that your dreams are not an escape; they are messages from the universe and nourishment for your creative soul.
Your power lies in your ability to feel deeply, imagine, and connect with the spiritual world. Your sensitivity is your strength. Your spirituality is your anchor.
These two powers bring balance between the material and spiritual planes. Together, they hold the key to embracing and transmuting your shadows.
Shadows: Black Candle & Red Roses

Black Candle â Fear of Being Unprotected and Energetically Insecure
Despite all your inner strength, there remains a trace of deep insecurity, as if something could go wrong at any moment. The Black Candle card speaks of an ancestral fear of being unprotected and not trusting the flow of life. Perhaps this stems from old traumas or experiences where you were taught always to be alert and expect the worst. This energy disconnects you from trust and can lead to anxiety and tension.
However, your already acquired powers, especially the firmness of Lilith in Capricorn, can help you distinguish between a genuine risk and a projected fear.
Red Roses â Emotional Wounds and Lack of Self-Love
The Red Roses card touches the heart directly. It speaks of times when you sought love from others to fill an inner void, forgetting that true love begins within you. This shadow can lead to doubts about how much you are truly loved, or to a fear of rejection, which may end up pushing loved ones away. Wounds from the past, perhaps from relationships or childhood, might still echo in your emotional life today.
The combination of the Black Candle and Red Roses cards can also indicate that you are very protective of your loved ones. While this is a beautiful quality, being overly protective can reflect a shadow side that may unintentionally push others away.
How to Integrate Your Powers and Shadows
Lilithâs strength in Capricorn can help you work through the insecurity of the Black Candle. Your determination and maturity allow you to organise your thoughts, identify patterns, and clarify what is merely fear. Every time you recognise your worth and accomplish something, you affirm that life can indeed be abundant, and this generates a sense of security, helping you see life with greater positivity.
Lilithâs sensitivity in Pisces is the medicine to heal the emptiness of the Red Roses. Your spirituality connects you with the source of unconditional love. Your creativity and empathy guide you towards living more gently and thoroughly, allowing your self-love to flourish. Moreover, Lilithâs power in Pisces brings the certainty of your connection with the universe and your spiritual guides, reminding you that you are never alone and that a greater force accompanies and protects you.
âïž Where You Can Get the Lilith Oracle Deck
If youâd like to purchase the Lilith Queen of the Night Oracle Grimoire Deck, you can click here to buy it from our website, or visit our Etsy shop Queer Divine.
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